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20 things you should do in your 20´s

24. December 2018by rufflesinroseLeave a Comment

Hey there!

The 20´s can be the most exiting years of your entire life. You are old enough to decide things on your own and young enough to do whatever you want. These are also your “selfish years” because you can focus completely on you and your career. Later in life things like that might be more complicated because you might have a family and children to take care of. So go girl and use that years wisely!

I´ll show you my list of 20 things now that you should consider to do in your 20´s.

learn a new language
live abroad
get a job you like
play an instrument/ find a hobby
donate blood
learn to surf (or any new kind of sport you never tried before)
learn to cook a proper meal
own a pet
volunteer/ do charity work
dye your hair
go on a roadtrip
travel solo
make a good friend
build something
make your driver license
buy a car
organize a meeting of your old classmates
go to a concert
ask for a pay rise
fall in love

Would you add or leave something? Do you already achieved some of these things? Let me now in the comments 🙂

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How to: gain more self confidence

23. August 2018by rufflesinroseLeave a Comment

In times of Social Media it is quite hard to not compare yourself to bloggers, influencers and “instagrammers.” Everything they do looks like a lot of fun. They are always dressed super fancy and they are setting the newest trends. Everything they wear looks perfect on them. But trust me, this is just a illusion.

These so called “influencers” decide what they want to show of their life. It is obvious that people just wanna share the good times/days in their lives with others, rather than showing the world the newest spot on their face or the last fight they had with their partner. The more we consider this, the less we take these pictures as a guideline to our life.

But social media is just one thing to remove from our mindset when it comes to getting more self confidence:

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All about being single

25. April 201824. April 2018by rufflesinroseLeave a Comment

Hey everyone,

First of all to make things clear: Being single doesn´t mean that you´re lonely.

Most People are scared after a breakup to be on their on again. They miss being with someone, sharing thoughts with their fellow or just having someone by their side. I went through this myself and nearly everyone will go through this phase once (some even more than once) in their life. But being single is nothing we should be scared of, instead we should take it as a gift to learn more about ourselves, focus more on us and enjoy living and making new friends and contacts. In this blogpost i´d like to show you the advantages (and my own experiences) about being single. Continue reading “All about being single” →